Online Dating is Not a Contest

Online dating is not a competition between competing males for the attention of a female. Grow up. Change your mind set from winning to searching. This isnt high school. You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now. Your attitude is the most important asset you have. You should like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that arent YOUR idea of the perfect guyone the all women want.

What is that women want, you ask? Thats the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and dont want.

Women want a man to be confidentan arrogant jerk. Theres a big difference. You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you dont need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky. They dont want you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are some kind of perfect being, either. They cant live up to that expectation.

Women want a communicator. The strong silent type really isnt appealing at all. They think you probably dont have an original thought in your head and you probably havent heard a word they said, either or that you just dont care what they said or didnt even hear what they said. They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.

Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They dont want to be a trophy. They want to be the ONE woman that you want to be with.

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