The Issue of Child Support after a Divorce

Child support is an amount of money that one parent is obligated to pay the other after a divorce. The money is used to pay for the cost of the expenses relating to the children. This includes basic living expenses, clothing, food, and extra items that we all know kids ask for on a regular basis. The amount of money that has to be paid out for child support will depend on many factors.

If the couple can agree upon a set amount of money to be paid each month that is the best route to go. The calculations in the courts are time consuming and very complicated. You will also be paying an attorney to take care of such matters for you. Still, many individuals arent willing to pay a dime more than they should so they want it done legally. You also have others who want every dime they deserve so they want to make sure they are getting a fair amount.

Generally the parent who has the children the majority of the time will be receiving the child support payments. If the custody is shared equally then no child support may be required. In some states though that doesnt matter. The decision to have to pay child support depends on the amount of money that each party is making. If they have other children from another marriage to consider that has to be calculated in as well.

The specific laws that apply to child support will depend on what area you live in. You can get the details from your attorney or you can look them up online. There is a great deal of controversy surrounding the issue of child support though. It seems to be one of those bitter issues that continues to affect the relationship of the adults long after the marriage has ended.

Some individuals refuse to pay the court ordered child support. They dont think their ex spouse uses it for what it was intended for. They also do it as a control issue that affects their ex spouse. They want to make it financially difficult for them to get by. This is often a form of retaliation for getting a divorce.

Others simply cant afford to pay the child support for one reason or another. They may have too many other bills. The cost of paying for all the living expenses for yourself can be very hard. When you have a huge amount of child support to pay on top of it, you may find it almost impossible to make ends meet.

Changes in a persons finances such as changing jobs, getting laid off, medical problems, and even getting married again can really affect the amount of disposable income available. Millions of dollars in unpaid child support are owed to parents all over the world. Some locations go to extremes to get people to pay what they owe at any cost.

For example a parent may lose their right to drive, to hunt, or to obtain an income tax refund if they owe child support. This is due to the fact that so many people are relying on public assistance due to not getting the amount of child support that is owed to them. For many divorced people, child support can be a financial burden.
As a result they may try to get the courts to change things in their favor. For example they may ask for more parenting time so that they can pay less in child support. There are those that dont get to see their children very often as it is. So they choose to terminate their parental rights as part of a deal with the other parent. They agree not to have any say in their childrens lives in exchange for not having to pay any child support. This can leave children feeling like they werent wanted as they dont see the financial severity of the issue.

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